My wife and I have been married for 10 years. She's 38, I'm 52.
When we married, she was a virgin. That was my second marriage. During our 10 years of marriage, she's only agreed to have sex with me once a year, twice has been the maximum. I mentioned to her if she didn't want to do it, I might end up having sex with other women, she wept after hearing this. I once cheated on her with a work partner, and found the girl so sweet. But I felt guilty afterwards; I didn't want to hurt them both, so I stopped the affair.
I thought of divorce 5 years ago, but she disagreed. Last year when we slept together, she conceived a baby for me, which makes us less likely to divorce.
So basically we've been living a life chastely. Once we went to a doctor, but she was found nothing wrong! me, either. I know I have sexual desires, but things don't seem to work out.
Has anyone here or anyone you know ever had such a problem? What can I do with such a marriage? What's wrong with her?