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somethingelse · 08-18-2012, 09:50 PM

I'll make this as brief as I can...

H has been a serial cheater for years now...and has now promised to stop cheating and start a-new :roll eyes: not that I trust it yet.

But it seems like every time we go out, he sets off this vibe when other women are around, especially ones that are alone...
I can see him almost puff up...and it seems like he's giving these women his "approval" with eye contact.. and he gets really quiet when he does this.

I watch him every time now, and have noticed that while he does this, the woman he does it to, puts a little smirk on her face, or she takes a second look at him after. Then when I ask him "what was that all about" he gets all uncomfortable, and starts getting really jittery..and asks, "what are you talking about"

I asked him one day if he thinks that will help my trust issues about him, and he just tells me he's not doing anything..and I'm just paranoid.

What do you all think?
Do a lot of men do this?
Is it appropriate that a married man does this?
Or am I just paranoid?

08-18-2012, 09:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
somethingelse Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 1,398	need mostly Male opinions on this one. but Female opinions fully accepted too I'll make this as brief as I can... H has been a serial cheater for years now...and has now promised to stop cheating and start a-new :roll eyes: not that I trust it yet. But it seems like every time we go out, he sets off this vibe when other women are around, especially ones that are alone... I can see him almost puff up...and it seems like he's giving these women his "approval" with eye contact.. and he gets really quiet when he does this. I watch him every time now, and have noticed that while he does this, the woman he does it to, puts a little smirk on her face, or she takes a second look at him after. Then when I ask him "what was that all about" he gets all uncomfortable, and starts getting really jittery..and asks, "what are you talking about" I asked him one day if he thinks that will help my trust issues about him, and he just tells me he's not doing anything..and I'm just paranoid. What do you all think? Do a lot of men do this? Is it appropriate that a married man does this? Or am I just paranoid?