Originally Posted by Feeling_bad

Complexity, can you expand upon what you mean by lack of marital boundaries. Thanks...

Canadian Guy, not sure what "OM" is, but I assume you mean the wife of the guy. She is distraught as well. She and her kids are staying at a friend's house now. Her and I have been texting each other throughout the day. My wife had only gone to their house without me once, and that was 2 weeks ago when I was away for work. According to the OM's wife, there was flirting going on, but there was also a lot of alcohol drunk that night as well. The OM actually called my wife this morning to apologize while I was gone. I did check my wife's phone and noticed the phone number had not been set up as one of her contacts and the conversation lasted less than a minute. So my gut was there was some playful flirting between them, and I think this was the first time it got physical. If you think it could be otherwise, please let me know.