Divorce?

Stacie1019 · 03-16-2008, 09:23 AM

I've been married to this guy for 6-7 months now, and it has not been at all like I thought. I thought some problems would go away and we would live happily ever after. Okay, not to that extent. Anyways, last night we got into the discussion of Divorce already. He came at me with this whole barage of things that he doesn't like about me and the relationship. Then he told me he was leaving me. Now, I talked to him for hours, and convinced him to stay, but was I wrong? I can't help thinking that if anything were to set him off, he'd go on about everything he hates about me and try to leave me again. What do I do? I couldn't sleep at all last night because I'm so stressed out, and because I have panic disorder, it's greatly affecting me!

Immortalone · 03-16-2008, 11:22 AM

Are the items he listed new things? Are these things that started after you got married? How well did you know him before you were married? Have you thought about counseling? So early in a marriage to be talking about divorce, it almost seams as if the two of you did not realy know each other as deeply as you should have. Also I realy hate it when I hear how one spouse starts listing off what is wrong with the other. It takes two people to make or break a bond.

draconis · 03-17-2008, 08:43 PM

If he used such thing against you chances are he sill again, and if he does just look at him and ask if he can pick up the paperwork at court. Wow in under a year you are already fighting like this?

draconis

sweetp101 · 03-18-2008, 12:58 PM

I'm sorry to hear that things are going wrong in your marriage so early in the relationship. You should never think that getting married will solve any issues. Sometimes it only escalates the problem. Try counseling. But if he really wants to leave, nothing is going to stop him.