: Coping with Infidelity - How to Stop Punishing Her
- How to leave a cheater? Here is the Answer....
- I cheated before marriage
- Do I confront my husband's girlfriend?
- From bad to worse
- What the crap is this?
- How long does withdrawal take?
- Husband let a guy friend give him a hand job
- Husband cheated with his friend
- Recovery problems
- It`s happening again .........
- 1yr Post DD and here we go again...
- I hate cheaters
- Can we talk about privacy vs secrets, transparency and trus in recovery?
- Withdrawing divorce petition in Texas
- Questions on Exposing affair
- is this normal?
- Don't know what to think
- Angelpixie's 'Exposing the wound to sunlight' thread
- wife and best friend having (at least) an EA
- Today is the DAY!!!!
- Thanks
- Is this passive aggressive or am I too sensitive?
- I am Deployed,and I found her e-mails to another guy.
- I feel terrible
- Husband leaving me for a co worker
- Checking In
- 9 months past DDay
- Crazy response to a cheater
- 3 Months since D day and I'm still struggling.
- Fight to save a short marriage?
- Why am I so upset about the AP HAPPY LIFE!
- How do I get over it?
- Wife having an affair with Co Worker
- need some support please!!
- long term affair
- 5 Things that puzzle me
- Threatened Now
- Any insight?
- 10 Yr anniversary approaching...what to do?
- Wife cheated 6 years ago and just found out??!!?
- more than infidelity, but need advice as to where to go for help
- What is the fog?? And fog speak for that matter?
- Can't cope with this pain
- found out about affair devastated
- Do you ever feel like no matter what you're screwed?
- depressed over emotional facebook affair
- wife had affair... divorce or hope?
- Anger? What anger??
- This is my anniversary weekend but he is out cheating on me
- Why does the OW try to be the main woman?
- what do I do now?
- When everyone finds out, how to deal with humiliation?
- Need help..had severe panic attack
- Gratitude to all of you
- Ups & Downs of Reconciliation???
- My mother reminded me that I was cheated on!
- Need some advice
- Need Car Tracker Advise - recommendations??
- It wasn't a girl she cheated with!?
- Seeking Advice
- What's going on here?
- Not the same man I fell in love with...Lost trust, hope and broken promises
- confused - hurt - angry - did I mention confused?
- Advice needed
- whether to disclose revenge affair against WS stated wishes
- An inexperienced infidelity counselor is worse than no counselor
- How do I help my Brother in law
- It looks like i will have to leave
- The BS does all the work!
- Convincing wife that I still love her even though I cheated
- The Big Bang Theory of Infidelity
- A tale of emasculation.
- How a friend handled her desire for other men
- Need feedback NOW please!!!
- How do I know when to trust?
- Forgiveness & Why People Try to Stay Married
- Dig and Regret214's Q&A Thread
- Lies and denial. Please help me.
- Eventful night and a discovery
- Am I being cheated or am I just paranoid?
- After an Affair - Husband's Female Friend
- 2 yrs later im still hurting
- My Story of Destruction and Recovery (Part 3)
- My Side of the Story
- WS Breakdown
- Watching an EA from the outside......
- Doubting Myself
- WW meeting BS family after DDay?
- Scorned mom uses husband's affair to sell family home
- WW spouse's mixed emotions at son's graduation - what does it mean?
- Expose, expose
- How?
- Is it ever right to stay together for the kids
- My Story of Destruction and Recovery (Part 2)
- Texting Affair
- My Story of Destruction and Recovery (Part 1)
- Feeling the trust build more...
- Girlfriend dosnt like my friend
- Red flag from disloyal spouses of false reconciliation/recovery
- OW's husband finally agreed to talk to me!
- D-Day #2
- Oh Honey
- Left broken after hubby left me and the kids for a co-worker
- Basic Question on VARs
- Lied to, let down and angry
- left heartbroken by husbands affair
- What else is there to do?
- No spousal support in Texas?
- I may not be the father
- 18yrs since infidelity
- So Confused and seeking opinions
- Do you want to know who usually call your husband/wife?
- Trying to recover from wife's EA
- Husband EA
- My Story
- How to go through wife's EA hell
- Maxim sent me over the edge...
- Can the 180 backfire and cause more distance? Need tips...
- Still not there
- Lies, ONS, What do I do now?
- Gonna try long distance marraige counseling
- Regarding VARs - Legal? I don't want to get in trouble.
- How do you cope?
- No Contact Letter & Exposure- do they prevent future cheating really?
- Can exposure stop this?
- What is Infidelity?
- My wife is in survival mode
- Can there be marraige counseliing when my husband is living out of state?
- How do we get through the not sleeping?
- Recommendation for Marriage Counselor in NJ??
- Distance is not working, I think my marriage is over
- Caught wife sexting back in April
- Have access to his email!!
- Looking back on it - 1 year later
- Anniversary after reconsilation should be Speacial and very important
- Get Involved or Not Get Involved
- Recommend Marriage Counselor in NJ???
- Reactions of the OW
- 180?
- When you had your Dday looking back was there things you said/did that you regret?
- Who should be doing all the work in R?
- Husband is suddenly making me doubt him
- Pissed off BS
- What do I do?
- Note to wayward spouses
- who's happier in the long run?
- Motherlload of all triggers- please help
- Unreasonable?
- Important Guidelines for "Coping with Infidelity" section. **Please Read This**
- 1st intercourse since affair!!!
- I'm having trouble "forgiving and forgetting"
- Gotta luv California!!
- I guess a full 180 is in order...
- Go back to US?
- 8 years ago & I still hurt...
- wife has EA with her boss...bleh
- Reflections on why my R failed
- Just Venting
- Wife Having Affair With Soccer Dad
- Can't get over this EA:(
- Marriage without Trust
- When to confront? Do I have enough Evidence?
- One year after
- Rebuilding After An EA.
- Divorce vs. the truth?
- What should I do? What a mess.
- Susceptibility to Infidelity in the First Year of Marriage
- An affair a friend had
- I need help bad
- Sex on the mind?
- I don't believe it can be a stronger marriage after this...
- Please Help Me
- Update jason h
- Text email hang ups
- Is it normal for WS to say they hate
- what now :s
- One Year
- I need help eme,i have no hope left
- Never will be enough
- My husband's frustration over my insecurities from his EA
- opinions please on husband leaving 26 yr marriage
- Long Story
- Chastity devices for cheating men?
- So many emotions...
- Wife seeing ex-boyfriend
- Fiction
- Don't know what to do..please help lost!!!
- 2 months in feel nothing - is there hope?
- OW is his boss
- Saw EA forming W house guest- trigger for me
- I cheated, told my husband, now what?
- Karma Bus
- How can I go on?
- Books on struggling for later down the road?
- Help me with the anger
- Is he being unfaithful?
- gf's cousin just confided an A to her...
- Best current song!
- Asked her to move out, but she won't
- Pros and Cons of same counselor?
- Am I too leniant after being cheated on?
- Found an old email that I had printed out last year and put away...
- I fell in love with someone else...
- Looks like it's over.
- anyone interested in evidence gathering thread?
- Talking to preteen about sex...
- Polygraph, to take or not to take?
- Seems way more women cheat than men?
- please help!
- Looking forward to celebrating our 9th anniversary!!
- How do you stop snooping?
- Is she cheating and do I confront her?
- How to fight back
- Questions for those who are/have reconciled
- Is it time to let the questions go and move on?
- Why is it so hard?
- All messed up
- Everything Hurts
- A Devastated Family
- Wife comes clean about her affair
- Help please! Lacking intimacy from a spouse who cheated on me while pregnant
- Borderline Personality Disorder
- When someone could't cope with infidelity
- Remorse vs Desperation
- Question ???
- Update: Almost 6 months since left....something is changing
- Dont know what to do
- Fishing advice / support please
- Advice/input please - honest reason for condom in the laundry?
- PLEASE HELP how long would you wait, and pay for your mistake
- Help-Sorry
- I just asked him to leave tonight, and I'm gutted to the core
- Can I move my stuff out before presenting her with divorce papers?
- How big is the difference when it comes to infidelity?
- Husband "almost" cheated... now what?
- My wife was cheating all along
- 6 weeks after finding out really struggling(long)
- why is there not a stickied thread
- The infidelity in media discussion thread
- messed up situation
- Big Talk Last Night
- When the WS has "positive" memories of Emotional Affairs
- Married for 8 Years and fallen for another women
- Nine months and I'm still reeling... Poly questions?
- VAR's etc
- Initial foray
- UPDATE: Not blaming myself
- Completely spun
- Husband failed polygraph...what now?
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