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post #31 of 48 (permalink) Old 03-30-2013, 10:16 PM
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It's only a day away now freak!!!
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Not any more...Today was the Day. No April Fool's Joke..

Oh geez... You got banned AGAIN? Dude....

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Would You Marry You?

I would not marry anyone!

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post #35 of 48 (permalink) Old 04-06-2013, 03:26 AM
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No, I wouldn't marry me. We're too alike... I prefer someone who complements my strengths and whose strengths cancel out my weaknesses; not matches them.

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I'd need to step up the cooking..!


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Hmmmm maybe, although if both me's pushed each others buttons we could end in divorce lol
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Not any more...Today was the Day. No April Fool's Joke..

Oh geez... You got banned AGAIN? Dude....
everyone needs a scapegoat love...

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I would TOTALLY marry me. Here are my, and my potential spouse's (me)qualities:

I rock. No, really. I play guitar.
Which leads me to my next point. I love music. I play Tool, Yes, Led Zeppelin, Black Keys, well, you get it.
I'm super smart. Yeah, I am. I say this because I am smart enough to know that I don't know it all.
I love, love, LOVE my family. I am a family-oriented dude.
I like sports. I played soccer in college.
I am a libertarian. Ron Paul 2008! Ron Paul 2012! Rand Paul 2016!
I love God.

My deficiencies are:
I'm OCD.
I have canine teeth, skinny legs, and attached earlobes.
I don't always like admitting when I am wrong.
I have a potty mouth.
I have PTSD.


I would probably get tired of me, but being married to me would be awesome!

Now, my wife doesn't play any instrument, sport, or like the same music I like. She couldn't care less about politics aside from when I delve into it. We are just enough opposite to keep it lively but we have things in common like the love of our family and God. She's faithful to me. Shoot, we even complete one another on a parental level. She isn't much in the way of hands-on with the kids, as to where I can't love on them or play with them enough. We truly balance each other. I've always said to her, though, aside from a lack of affection, if I could change one thing about her it would be the music aspect. I really, really feel music. I critique it. I talk about it. I talk about key changes, chord structures, time signatures, scales, octaves, and the like. She couldn't care less. She doesn't understand a good melody or three-part harmony. God love her.
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I would ONLY marry myself again if I brought the same to the table as she did.

Unfortunately due to feminism and hypergamy, the chance of that happening are slim.

But that's okay -- I'm find with having fun with a woman with no expectation of anything more.

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I was going to marry myself last year when the divorce was final.....

But then I found out I wasn't really pregnant and just lied to keep me around which lead to a whole list of other problems. I eventually had to break it off when I realized "I love myself but I wasn't in love with myself", so now I'm seeing an alter ego who's great. He makes me do things, TERRIBLE THINGS I don't remember, but he's so funny and charming and exciting and he only hits me when I deserve it. I think he may be the one for me! *fingers crossed*
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Hmmm...I've gotta think about this one.

What does your gut tell you...?
One day at a time. One foot in front of the other
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I would marry the good qualities in me, but certainly not the bad. Since they are 50/50 I hope it would be a wash.
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Re: Would You Marry You?

Until such time that my psychological frame of mind is back to its former state, I definitely would not want to marry me.

While no person is going to be batting a 1000%, two people must realize that each has distinct traits and characteristics that complements, as well as offers contrast to the other.

Call me jaded if you will, but one thing is of definite certainty: I will never ever bring myself to marry a woman of wealthy means again! Now while I may have had some mild equivocations and misgivings about that factor going in to that marriage, those now have largely turned into a rather overt prejudice.

"To love another person is to see the face of God!" - Jean Valjean from Les Miserables

My Story! http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-t...andonment.html
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