Re: Will Having Kids Ruin Your Marriage?
In my opinion, having children is like adding an extra storey to a house. If the original foundations are strong then it will make life even better and cause no problems. If the original foundations are weak however, the whole house will collapse and everything will be destroyed.
Basically, children per se don't destroy marriages/relationships, but they can be the straw that broke the camel's back if your marriage is already weak (whether you know it or not).
That's my view anyway...
Life is either a great adventure or nothing - Helen Keller.