01-12-2010, 08:29 AM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: The "Ultimate" Insult
Originally Posted by BigBadWolf
If you have not done so already, read what I have typed in post #13 for this very issue.
It is not usually anything about physical looks if a woman is not attracted to her man, unless he is really "let himself go" which is showing is is not in control of his health or hygiene. It is instead more likely what has changed in his treatment of her.
And yes, if a man is being the "nice guy" to a woman, she is going to feel insecure and will not be attracted to this man.
Well I said I didn't want to make this about me, and now I have...
I wanted to compliment you on your post though (#13). That did describe me in many ways: telling me how to dress...when to shave...inattentiveness when I am speaking...
I also think it doesn't help that I'm the nicest guy she's ever met. I am the stay at home dad and the kids come to me, even when she is home so perhaps that doesn't help her resentment either.
I don't know how I could get away with reading a book titled: No More Mr. Nice Guy here at home without giving away the game plan, but I will make the changes you suggested in your post and start there.