Husband moved out
Long story short, my husband of 3 years moved out of the house abrubtly and basically took all his paycheck to get settled in his new place, 3 days before household bills were due. That's another story, but that alone makes me feel like it's definately all about him! We have 15 months old twins, we both work full time, we've had 15 months worth of severe issues ~ I was in a coma for 2 weeks after childbirth due to heart failure, 8 months later I had a stroke due to high BP, then a few months later I had colitis. Before all of that, my husband and I had to deal with his life choices that landed him on felony probation and parole. 7 months ago I got a clean bill of health finally and he got off probation. But the backlash of the tension and the stress left much to be sorted out.
I don't deny there was constant bickering, fighting, etc., but everytime I set a counseling appt he had something come up that he couldn't get out of. And now this... He says he'll go to counseling now, but I'm quite angry and bitter that after all we've been through he could just what essentially relates to abandoning us. He claims up and down that all he wants to do is get his family back in a healthy, happy life. And that's what I want too, but now the resentment of him just packing and going like that, leaving the stress of the finances and the day to day with the babies up to me is getting under my skin.
Can anyone shed some light on what this all means? I'm going through a rollercoaster of emotions!