Re: How do you get him to leave when he refuses?
Well, I think I made my final decision that I want a seperation, at least a trial seperation so that I have time to myself to think, and figure out what it is I want. I have been upstairs for almost 2 wks now and I only go down to my apartment to sleep and then I still only sleep on the couch, but I've been sleeping on the couch for at least 2 months now. But I have told him numerous times I want him to leave, I need some space and he still won't go. I don't understand, he lives in my parents house, in the apartment they built for us, but for 2 1/2 years now he hasn't paid rent which was agreed upon, but he acts like he has a right to be there, why? My family has opened their hearts and home to him and this is how he repays them, by making me miserable, not paying rent for 2 1/2 yrs only $400 month and my dad was going to give us half of that back towards a house. He doesn't pay his bills, bounces checks left and right, has spent all of my savings. Why is he so disrespectful that when I ask him to leave because I need space because I need to think about where this is going he won't even leave? He forces me to feel uncomfortable in my own home. I am going to have to have my father throw him out, but I'm afraid that he is going to go "psycho" on my dad when he tells him to leave. He treats the apartment like its his to come and go as pleases, living in denial while I stay upstairs with my family, because I need space, how can he be okay with that. I don't think I could ever love him again because once again he is taking advantage and being disrespectful. I think there is something wrong upstairs.