02-10-2010, 11:20 PM
Join Date: Feb 2010
| | Re: She wants me to leave but i dont want to go
I understand that you do not want to lose your family. But, it seems to me that you took that chance when you had the affair. If you really want to work on your marriage and try to rebuild the trust that was taken away, give your wife some space. You really have no control over how she chooses to proceed, whether it is to work on rebuilding the marriage or if she feels that the marriage is over and she wants a divorce. The ball is basically in her court. What you do have control over is showing her enough respect to listen to her, understanding why she feels the way she does, and giving her the space she needs to figure out what she wants.