She wants me to leave but i dont want to go
Me and my wife have gone through a lot in 6+ years of marriage.
Recently she found out i cheated with a friend of ours. Before this things where rough but we still spoke and worked through most of our problems. Well the if that was not enough my daughter's friends live across the street from the woman i had the affair with so they called her and told my d i was over there and sent her pictures. So needless to say my d lost her friends because of the embarrassment. Now every one in my house hates me. The woman has moved out of state and my daughter forgave me not to long ago after dropping this bomb on me in the middle of a family meeting saying she could not hold it in anymore. Me and my wife where getting over it but this coming out 4 or 5 mos after has been crippling to our marriage. Now she wants me out because i hurt not only her but the kids. Should i continue to walk on eggshells till time heals this wound or should i leave and maybe try from a distance she has not said that she wants a divorce for certain but if i leave what will she do? Help me guys I'm lost i don't want to leave my family i want a chance to make it up or at least show them it want happen again
Last edited by dre; 02-10-2010 at 10:17 PM.
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