Well i already have it he gave me this written agreement long time ago when i was planning to go to visit my sister and he gave it to me to show me that he is good and he has good intentions. He mentioned in it that he gives me permission to take my son with me on vacation to any country overseas at anytime i want.
This was dated on April 22nd but the way he said means i have the permission to take my son anytime i want RIGHT??
What i meant by if you know what that means , it means he want to see me and talk to me...
Anyway i do expect him going over there while i am visiting. Don't you think so?? This is his last hope to catch me when i am with my family to try to pressure me to go back to him. But i don't care if he did i will prepare my family to that in case it happened.
LVS, is there any risk of him preventing you from leaving your home country with your son once you all three are there? That is, could he declare residency there and ask the government to prevent you from taking your son back to the USA?
Uptown I asked my brother the monk to check for me because i know that this use to exist in the past so he asked a judge in the spiritual court in my country and the only way my ex can prevent me from leaving is by the presence of a court case and i should be informed about it but to do so now it takes time and the court close all the August month and i will be back before the mid of it so he won't be able to stop me.
As for my son i guess it is the same but even if he can my ex won't do it because all his kids will turn against him and he is counting on their support. Plus my son would not want to stay over there. My ex doesn't have anybody there to support him and no job and he has to come back here so this is not an option for him.
Yes, you have the right to take your son no matter what he says, if you have it written and signed. I know he just wants to see you. But you don't have to honor his wishes to see you off.
How will he afford to go over there?
The problem is my son wants his dad to take him to the airport.
About him going over there, what he said to my kids is that he would go if he was able to sell our apartment over there but if he wants to go he will get the money maybe from his brother but i think he has it hmmmm
You know the answer. He is not trustworthy and he has not changed a bit. He will corner you, browbeat you, and have you in knots before you even get to the airport. He may 'intend' to not talk to you, but do you seriously think he could control himself? I don't.
So your daughter is supposed to pick up your son from his dad's? What happens if he refuses to let his son leave with your daughter? Will you have to go over there to get him? Don't think he hasn't thought of that. I urge you not to be in the situation of your son being with your ex up to the plane flight.