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post #841 of 843 (permalink) Old 09-20-2011, 01:44 AM Thread Starter
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Re: 28 years of marriage What ca i do?

Tomorrow is going to be a tough day. I know what i suppose to do especially after his voice message and i am still not wanting to do it
I know i should call the police or get a restraining order but something in me still refusing to do it unless i am pushed till the edges.

My friends I am an analytical person (I know sometimes we should not analyse so much we should just act) But i just need to do this analysis. Will you please help me to analyse my situation?!

In my mind lots of questions and hesitation. Why this hesitation is there when i know what is right to be done?

MY BOUNDARIES are invaded what am I waiting for???

What am I AFRAID OF????

Let's say i am pushed till the edges, would i care and would i still be worried about anything else? My answer is NO!!!! So why wouldn't I just do it now???????

Is it all about culture??? Or there is another reason?

I know if someone else is in my situation what i would advice them. I know if one of my beloved is hurt with this i won't wait to act?

But my beloved are hurt in indirect way in emotional way would calling the police or getting a restraining order hurt them more???

What are the negative sides of getting a restraining order?

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post #842 of 843 (permalink) Old 09-20-2011, 04:16 AM
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Re: 28 years of marriage What ca i do?

What does your therapist say?
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post #843 of 843 (permalink) Old 09-21-2011, 12:29 PM Thread Starter
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Re: 28 years of marriage What ca i do?

turnera my therapist says as everyone say as i also believe, that i should do is to call the police and get restraining order

I have another thread and instead of post it back here if you don't mind to reply on my other thread

How can i just do it ?!!!

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