09-20-2011, 12:44 AM
Join Date: Apr 2010
| | Re: 28 years of marriage What ca i do?
Tomorrow is going to be a tough day. I know what i suppose to do especially after his voice message and i am still not wanting to do it
I know i should call the police or get a restraining order but something in me still refusing to do it unless i am pushed till the edges.
My friends I am an analytical person (I know sometimes we should not analyse so much we should just act) But i just need to do this analysis. Will you please help me to analyse my situation?!
In my mind lots of questions and hesitation. Why this hesitation is there when i know what is right to be done?
MY BOUNDARIES are invaded what am I waiting for???
What am I AFRAID OF????
Let's say i am pushed till the edges, would i care and would i still be worried about anything else? My answer is NO!!!! So why wouldn't I just do it now???????
Is it all about culture??? Or there is another reason?
I know if someone else is in my situation what i would advice them. I know if one of my beloved is hurt with this i won't wait to act?
But my beloved are hurt in indirect way in emotional way would calling the police or getting a restraining order hurt them more???
What are the negative sides of getting a restraining order?
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