04-11-2010, 10:20 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: Choosing to be happy
Originally Posted by semperfi
My take: people who choose to be happy usually are. I cannot make my wife happy or unhappy. It's all in how she chooses to react to me, and to our relationship.
What do you think?
I don't "think" this, I know it. We are all responsible for our own happiness, period.
When they say they aren't happy. They aren't in love anymore. It's usually because they have found someone else. Deep inside they are happy (or more likely THINK THEY WILL be HAPPY) , with someone else. And that's the only reason they are willing to hurt everyone else by breaking up the family. They have had a taste, whether thru a physical affair, or an emotional affair, a taste of that in love feeling they haven't felt in 20 yrs. It doesn't take much. Best of luck my friend.