11-05-2010, 08:00 PM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: Did he use me for a green card?
What you're going through must be really hard to bear. How much do you feel you love him, and need him? The way he replies go do it then stands out to me. I've often said that to my wife when I feel like I've had enough fighting. What I really want is good times with her again but don't know how to get there, she being so angry as am I. But I have to admit it, if she wants to leave so be it.
That he admits he needs to change to you(sometimes admits) is great. Many people never get that from a spouse.
What are the main 'dealbreakers' for you that make you think it's time to start the process of separating?