11-11-2010, 09:18 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | I'm at a a loss here folks
My wife seems to find it imposable to be honest with me where money is concerned. I am constantly finding letters arriving from Banks etc telling her that she is overdrawn, missed payments etc on her account or CC.
It got so bad a few months back that we ended up taking out a considerable amount on a consolidation loan so that it would free up more money for her and I thought that would be the end of the lies and deceit but the other day another letter arrived telling her that she was overdrawn on her overdraught to the tune of £150, I asked her how long and she told me a week and a half, I also know for a fact that she wouldn't have told me about the letter if she had gotten to the post that morning first.
I'm just so tired of all the lies and having to second guess if she is telling me the truth as only a few days ago I asked her if she was OK for money and she told me she was.
I'm at my wits end and don't want to live my life like this....
We have a 13 month old daughter who I absolutely love to pieces but I'm thinking of a trial separation as to be honest she has lied to me for so long now I don't honestly know how I feel about her anymore.
I'm looking for some help and advice here folks, has anyone else been through this with their other half and what did they do.