Hi All,
So my husband has been sitting w me at the dinner table until I am finished (usually gets up right ater eating - 10 mins max). He's made an appt to go see a therapist. Does things around the house that I normally do. I know he wants to change and it looks like he really wants to save our marriage but I feel indifferent.
I've come to realize that my feelings for him have changed as a result of all his lies and taking advantage of me, our marriage and my trust. NOW he's willing to change b/c he knows there's a very good chance that I am going to leave him. All the other times I guess he never thought I was serious.
I really think my love and respect for him died out a while ago (probably 2-3yrs ago). I should be happy that he's seeking therapy but feel indifferent. I feel like it's just too late (for him).
Is this my "epiphany"?
So my husband has been sitting w me at the dinner table until I am finished (usually gets up right ater eating - 10 mins max). He's made an appt to go see a therapist. Does things around the house that I normally do. I know he wants to change and it looks like he really wants to save our marriage but I feel indifferent.
I've come to realize that my feelings for him have changed as a result of all his lies and taking advantage of me, our marriage and my trust. NOW he's willing to change b/c he knows there's a very good chance that I am going to leave him. All the other times I guess he never thought I was serious.
I really think my love and respect for him died out a while ago (probably 2-3yrs ago). I should be happy that he's seeking therapy but feel indifferent. I feel like it's just too late (for him).
Is this my "epiphany"?