Re: If he want a Divorce/Separate shouldn't he file?
He's had 2 wives before you...I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say he's the problem.
The differences in terms of how you deal with travel and all that...those are things that really could be worked out and compromised on. Him telling you that you don't really know him and then saying it doesn't matter when you try to find out more tells me he's trying to manipulate you. He's trying to make you feel guilty and make you feel like the problem is you.
If he hasn't said he wants a divorce, then he probably doesn't. Why would he? He's got you, paying for everything and he can try to guilt you and make you feel bad so that he doesn't have to worry about you leaving.
The question isn't whether he should file if he wants a divorce. The question is what do you want? From what you say here, I get the feeling that you aren't all that happy. If you're not happy, then it doesn't really matter what he wants or what he should do. It matters what you want and what you should do to get what you want.
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