11-19-2010, 05:59 AM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | dont know what to do???
my husband and I have been married for just over a year now. we have a 4 year old and a 6month. when our 6month was born he started his own business. ever since then, he is never around. he is very business minded and he is always thinking of the business first before my feelings. everything has just gone downhill. we dont talk, everything is routine, we fight about everything, no sex and we dont go out anymore. even worse he is never around for the kids. just the other day i asked him for a family day off and his response was "what will we do?" cant he just want to be with his family and does not necessarily mean go out? he works 7 days a week. we argue all the time and my daugter sees it. she loves her father and it hurts to even think of seperation.
i feel so depressed, im always at home whilst he is out and the worst thing is that the business is not making any money so its is hitting us financially also. ive lost all motivation for myself and i dont feel good about myself anymore. i hate being at home and i cant just go back to work coz of our baby. i think we rushed into marriage and his priorities are not the same anymore. he says he is doing all of this for us but he can't even make time for us. he is just selfish in my eyes.
he has changed so much and when he is with us he is always somewhere else. his mind is always about the business.
he doesnt understand or support me coz he is too busy with what he has to do. im confused and dont know if we should just part. i love him this is hard. HELP!