Hello all,
I have been married for almost 3 years. I have wanted out for almost 2 of those three. My wife is a very bitter, controlling, angry, and downright disrespectful person to me. We've tried marriage counseling, but she refuses to go back. In fact, I want out so bad now, that the thought really makes me happy. What doesn't make me happy is that I have to separate from my daughter (2-years old) and my stepdaughter (5 1/2 years old). I live in a state where it is very hard for a man to get main custody of a child, regardless of how unfit a woman is. Not that my wife is unfit as a mother. She is very good, but just not a good wife, at least for me. So, after my stepdaughter starts school, I plan to have a talk with her and I will move out.
The second part of this, is that I've been having an affair with (get this) the 18 year old granddaughter of my boss, unbeknown to him of course. I am 37. I don't want judgmental comments on this, but regardless of our age difference I have really fallen for her. She is the most sweet and tender girl I've know in forever. As far as it making things difficult on my marriage break up, at this point I am not caring. I want to be with this young lady. She makes me feel wonderful. I'm not really that worried about my wife finding out. I would rather her not, but if she did, I would pay whatever consequences to still be with this lady. I'm not proud of running around, but I was seeking a happier companionship. I have gotten tired of being emotionally beat down for my wife's own unhappiness. I wasn't seeking a person to run around with. This thing just sort of happened. I know what kinds of thoughts I'm going to get on this, but I just felt like writing this out. I feel fantastic when I think about her. And feel like crap basically when I think about being with my wife. Thoughts on this are appreciated and I certainly will take them into consideration. Thank you.
I have been married for almost 3 years. I have wanted out for almost 2 of those three. My wife is a very bitter, controlling, angry, and downright disrespectful person to me. We've tried marriage counseling, but she refuses to go back. In fact, I want out so bad now, that the thought really makes me happy. What doesn't make me happy is that I have to separate from my daughter (2-years old) and my stepdaughter (5 1/2 years old). I live in a state where it is very hard for a man to get main custody of a child, regardless of how unfit a woman is. Not that my wife is unfit as a mother. She is very good, but just not a good wife, at least for me. So, after my stepdaughter starts school, I plan to have a talk with her and I will move out.
The second part of this, is that I've been having an affair with (get this) the 18 year old granddaughter of my boss, unbeknown to him of course. I am 37. I don't want judgmental comments on this, but regardless of our age difference I have really fallen for her. She is the most sweet and tender girl I've know in forever. As far as it making things difficult on my marriage break up, at this point I am not caring. I want to be with this young lady. She makes me feel wonderful. I'm not really that worried about my wife finding out. I would rather her not, but if she did, I would pay whatever consequences to still be with this lady. I'm not proud of running around, but I was seeking a happier companionship. I have gotten tired of being emotionally beat down for my wife's own unhappiness. I wasn't seeking a person to run around with. This thing just sort of happened. I know what kinds of thoughts I'm going to get on this, but I just felt like writing this out. I feel fantastic when I think about her. And feel like crap basically when I think about being with my wife. Thoughts on this are appreciated and I certainly will take them into consideration. Thank you.