lynn711

This has been going on for about 3 years now. When he gets angry - which is ALOT he calls me every name in the book. I have ignored it, of course called him names back, told him it was not acceptible, yet he just never stops. He is MEAN and spiteful.
He can be in love with me one day and the next I'm the most horrible person in the world.

MsLonely

When communication becomes an argument, it's hard to control the tongue. Eventually, the issue loses its focus but turned into a meaningless war of name calling.
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827Aug

You may want to find a therapist and suggest he join you. It sounds as though there may be mental issues with him. Is he under excessive stress? How's his health? Are drugs and/or alcohol involved?

AgentD

Anger issues comes to mind. I would suggest you getting yourself to a therapist so they can help you learn how to handle things. He on the other hand needs some help as well, will he go? Who knows, plus you can't make him, so its best to see what you can do for yourself. If after all that he wont go seek help, you will need to eventually decide if your sanity and self worth mean more to you than someone who is calling you names. MY guess is, if your self worth isn't already shot, it will be. I would do something as soon as you can before you become a shell of a person. Unless you already are.