02-07-2011, 07:53 AM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | Divorce after 6 months....
We had our biggest blow out of all time last night on our way home from my FIL's house after super bowl. It was bad. We both said a lot of terrible things and I am definitely not proud of myself for the things I said and did. But, I really think it is over. We were married this summer in July and have been married for a little over 6 months. I know the first year is supposed to be the most difficult, but it shouldn't be like this. We don't seem to like each other at all. We've had sex 3 times in 6 months. There are just too many things wrong with our relationship. This is my 1st marriage and his 2nd. He has 2 kids from his previous marriage that he never sees. This is becoming a problem with me and making it very difficult for me to be attracted to him and want to have children with him. I guess it should've been a red flag from the start, but I was blind to it and believed everything was ok. Now, I'm seeing it is not. I don't want to waste my time in this relationship if it's not going to go anywhere. I want to have a family, and I don't see that happening with him.
Last night he said he was going to go file for divorce today. I think he said it out of anger and won't truly do it, but maybe he should. I don't know how to pick up and move on now. I know I"m not the only one who has gone through this, but I still think "why me?"
Where should we go from here?