Re: Is marriage pointless?
Being someone coming out of a relationship trainwreck, and now trying to build a real relationship with real communication (with the same person from the trainwreck) I am hoping it's worth it to go forward. Granted it has been only 2 weeks, but it's amazing how different it is already! I actually feel like HE is also trying for the first time. I am also trying completely different things for the first time. Now it's not perfect, not the same passion as when we first met, but ... the point this time is a little different. We already know we can have the passion, this time we are willing to put in the work so that passion isn't all there is (neither of us think that passion alone can sustain a long standing relationship and hopefull marriage)
We have started again with JUST basics. Lots of big issues, but this time they are being put aside till we learn communication. We will see if with communication we can fix the big issues, no guarantees, but we never tried THAT before LMAO
I refuse to think it's not worth it (but then I refuse to believe in perfection either so maybe that's my trick to optimism LOL being a pessimist HAAAAAAAA)