Wife and I went last night to an adults only birthday party. I dropped off our little one (two year old) to grandma's (my mom) and headed back to pickup the W.
Wife and I had a good time but she can't seem to control her wine intake and started getting the dreaded "psycho eyes" where one misplaced word and/or action will set her off.
The majority of the guests are friends and family of hers so I tried to mingle and actually struck up some conversations. Anyway I look at my clock and call mom to check on my little prince and mom says he is being a bear (no nap that day
I talked to the W and told her to stay at the party while I get our little boy and pick her up. Fast forward 45 minutes later W is still talking and drinking so I called her and asked her to meet me so we could leave. Apparently she was kinda pissed because I was hurrying her since the little one was about to pass out and I wanted to get him to bed.
Well her tone started getting more aggressive and I swear I can feel a dark energy flooding the car and she starts accusing me of wanting to leave early so I can go home and watch TV or on the computer not giving a crap that she was having a great time. At this point I've had enough of her BS (son is in the back passed out
) and I wrongly tell her to STFU and be quiet. Yes I know it was wrong but dear lord this woman is relentless.
From there I am called: Spic, fat ass, *******, irresponsible father, Debbie Downer,etc. This morning I left the house early to visit my mom real quick and she calls asking if I wanted a coffee and acting like nothing happened. Huh?
She even gave me a hug and tried to kiss me to which I moved my head in disgust.
My peanut male brain cannot understand this.
PS: We have been to three different MC's and all of them recommend mood stabilizers+therapy. My family who are very religious tell me to kick her to the curb as they have noticed that I'm miserable. Yes I admit some Martyr tendancies on my part but I guess I just would hate to be a statistic.