11-03-2008, 11:22 AM
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: mountain west
| | Re: my wife is the only one who is separated-how long can i wait??HELP
Originally Posted by lmh11706
she says she just wants space to clear her head and to be alone and go out with her friends-space to do what exactly-go out to the club every sat nite-otherwise shes home with me and the kids every other night
HOW LONG CAN I WAIT FOR HER TO FORGIVE-OR NOT.she has to decide at some point wheter she wants to save the marriage or divorce me.i told her i can not live this way for months and months.she knows i want to stay with her and feel sometimes shes just making me suffer.like i did to her.
everyone keeps telling me its not over-her family,my family-but if she felt any love for me when-maybe shes just not feeling it anymore-i dont know.but then lets end it and move on with our lives instead of living in limbo
sounds like the only "ME" time she wants is time at this club with this guy...am i wrong??
how long can you wait??? how bad do you want it to work out???
can YOU move on???you say "maybe it's time." well, is it? by how i read this you don't want that.
we could all ask ourselves that question. "is it time to move on" and the answer almost all the time would be a resounding "NO."
i suspect that's your answer too. i hope so.
btw--the family's opinions are just that, opinions. lucky for you they sound supportive. but careful who you use for focus groups. that could backfire.
and maybe say a prayer. He listens.
separated, honoring wife and family daily, she deserves the best me i can give her.
4 kids g18, g12, g11, b7