05-10-2011, 08:19 PM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Re: Living Together While Separated
Ditto to what the others said. I can completely understand why you feel the way you do.
A man who is dependent, still strongly tied to his family at your expense, conflict avoidant, and apologizes when you disagree with him are not qualities that create a desirable feeling in a woman. Quite the opposite, really. Been there, done that.
Having said that, if he does in fact agree to counseling and work on himself and you can find a good marriage counselor together, you may just find yourself in a completely different marriage. A desirable one.
Women are made to be loved, not understood. - Oscar Wilde