Originally Posted by Xerox1234

Well I dont get that angry where I throw and break things. I don't punch things either. I do raise my voice and say things that I really don't mean. Thats something that I have been learning to deal with. I don't mean to pat myself on the back but I've been doing pretty good with it. I don't like to fight either but when you SO decides that they don't want to talk about and you come back later after you have calmed down and they still don't want to talk about it, then what do you do? We had a pretty rocky marriage for the first couple of years and it seemed to only get better after that then this falls into my lap. I had no idea anything was going on she never told me anything and of course she blamed that on me and my temper. Now she doesn't think that it will stick so now I'm getting to the point where I just don't care anymore stay or go if you know what I mean. I know that she is trying to let this go and if she wants this to work at all she will have to let it go or I'm gone. I'm getting to that point now.