05-23-2011, 08:53 PM
Join Date: May 2011
| | Lost and needing help
I'm just looking for a bit of support really. I got married last August to a wonderful person, who is my best friend, but there's no romantic or sexual feelings between us. We already live apart for work and over the past year, my feelings that way have grown weaker and weaker and now I'm left just wanting to get out of the marriage and be free to have a relationship. We have been together 6 years. We both knew that this would be a problem but the pressure of our families meant we went through with it.
Since then she has gotten a little more enthusiastic about the relationship, but my feelings have changed, I still care for her, I still love her, but I want to be free of this relationship and I feel so bad about that.
I feel guilty for hurting her, I feel guilty about how much was spent on the wedding and I feel guilty for our families. But we have no kids, no shared house, nothing else.
I would appreciate advice/support/love/even criticism