After 9 years together and 2kids (3and 1) my wife can't take anymore of me and has declared our marriage over. I personally still love her but the past 6 months have shown me that we can't work.
My wife is convinced that I still have feelings for an ex who dumped me 10years ago. She was so convinced that I confessed to it and apologized just in the hopes of moving past it. Well I was wrong. She wasn't 100% convinced, just suspicious and I proved her suspicions. So now we're over.
She still wants to provide the best possible life for our kids. So we can stay as roommates to raise our children as long as we can stop from fighting. My wife says we can stop fighting if I contact my ex to get closure. I havenuntil Wednesday night to get her on the phone in my wife's presence, or I have to move out.
So began a painful series of web searches and calling and emailing people I haven't seen in 10 years. My wife found ex's sister's phone, so I guess this conversation will happen, but will this lead to peace in the house?
My wife is convinced that I still have feelings for an ex who dumped me 10years ago. She was so convinced that I confessed to it and apologized just in the hopes of moving past it. Well I was wrong. She wasn't 100% convinced, just suspicious and I proved her suspicions. So now we're over.
She still wants to provide the best possible life for our kids. So we can stay as roommates to raise our children as long as we can stop from fighting. My wife says we can stop fighting if I contact my ex to get closure. I havenuntil Wednesday night to get her on the phone in my wife's presence, or I have to move out.
So began a painful series of web searches and calling and emailing people I haven't seen in 10 years. My wife found ex's sister's phone, so I guess this conversation will happen, but will this lead to peace in the house?