I have been with my husband for 7 years, 4 of those married. It seems like ever since we got married he started lying about everything! He probably lied before that, I was just to naive to realize it; anyway, we fell on hard times recently and have been staying with family members temporarily and it has gotten WAY worse since then! He is not cheating, but lying about stupid stuff.. such as stuff he buys (he hides stuff in the car), going to random places with his friends (Mainly the gym), and he even lied about going to work...I called there yesterday to ask him to bring home some medicine for his son and to my surprise he was not there, I confronted him and he said the new girl there did not know what she was talking about...they also said he was not there today. I always catch his lies, I can just sense it...but when I confront him he blows up and says he is leaving because I don't trust him.
umm no **** I dont trust him, he has given me every reason not too!
I know I should leave, but im facing two delimas...one I love him with every part of my being! I am young and he is the only one I have been in a serious relationship with...he is everything I know! Secondly, I we are expecting our third child and if he leaves, I will have nothing. I have an associates degree and am going to college for my bachelors, but aside from that I have no job (hard to find one when your 8 months preggo) no car since its in his name, no drivers license for that matter...I feel like even if I did get up the courage to leave, I will just be stuck with my family members forever and its not their job to support me.
Im at the point where I am just considering letting him lie and just go with it...if he is happy then that is all that matter right? He can have his life and my kids will have a complete family...but then im tired of crying! Ugh this is so confusing!
Has anyone ever dealt with this? I just need some type of support or advice! I have no one to talk to at all!