09-27-2011, 08:13 PM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: At a total loss
Are you both on the deed/lease? If so or even if not, you might want to visit with an attorney first to see what your options are - can you force him out of the house, do you have to give him notice, etc.
Once you know what your options are, the best way to do it is straight up. Tell him what you've said here - he's been abusive to your children, you won't have that, and he has to go, you're done.
Do you think he may become abusive/violent when you tell him it's time to go? If so, make sure you have someone with you or nearby (in the next room or waiting outside) to make sure he goes.