10-02-2011, 04:04 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: Much Too Late
been there and done that, my mind set on "cheaper to keep her" was washed away about 20 months ago.
I finally told my serial cheating wife that I was done and confronted her and that I was now ready to leave the marriage.
The wierd thing was is she also wanted change and we both through our 20 year marriage was out the window and lets just say we never wanted the "way things used to be".
We both decided that a new marriage with the same person was better then a new marriage with different peolpe but with the same behaviors.
So we both made the dicision to have a new marriage with each other, with healthier behaviors. Its been working so far and I am quit surpprised on what she has done to make her self a better person.
No real advice, just wanted to share