Hi,
I'm really glad to have found this forum.
I'm 26, have been with my husband for 5 and a half year, married for 6 months.
From the outside we have the perfect marriage and we do enjoy each others company amazingly, but I have no feelings of love towards him that I should have for a husband. It's like we're good friends who make each other laugh, a lot. But there are 100 other people I would rather spend my time with.
Our sex life has been non existent for at least the past year. We didn't have sex on our wedding day and only twice whilst on honeymoon.
I am not attracted to him any more. He annoys and embarrasses me with things he does and says, especially in front of people. he doesn't get me any more. He is weird about money and splitting everything exactly in half.
I feel old and bored. I have brought up these feelings to him over the past year, and every time he just thinks I'm making it up to cause a fight.
I wish I hadn't got married. I was so caught up in the plans, the idea of it all that I didn't stop to think what I was doing. I was entirely underwhelmed on my wedding day and haven’t enjoyed our time together since.
I told him this on Sunday evening and stayed at a friends house last night. He is convinced this will pass, but I really don’t see how it can.
He is my best friend and I hate hurting him, but I can’t stay with him to keep him happy.
I feel like the most selfish woman alive.
I'm really glad to have found this forum.
I'm 26, have been with my husband for 5 and a half year, married for 6 months.
From the outside we have the perfect marriage and we do enjoy each others company amazingly, but I have no feelings of love towards him that I should have for a husband. It's like we're good friends who make each other laugh, a lot. But there are 100 other people I would rather spend my time with.
Our sex life has been non existent for at least the past year. We didn't have sex on our wedding day and only twice whilst on honeymoon.
I am not attracted to him any more. He annoys and embarrasses me with things he does and says, especially in front of people. he doesn't get me any more. He is weird about money and splitting everything exactly in half.
I feel old and bored. I have brought up these feelings to him over the past year, and every time he just thinks I'm making it up to cause a fight.
I wish I hadn't got married. I was so caught up in the plans, the idea of it all that I didn't stop to think what I was doing. I was entirely underwhelmed on my wedding day and haven’t enjoyed our time together since.
I told him this on Sunday evening and stayed at a friends house last night. He is convinced this will pass, but I really don’t see how it can.
He is my best friend and I hate hurting him, but I can’t stay with him to keep him happy.
I feel like the most selfish woman alive.