Re: Wife wants to move out pls. advise !!!
My friend do the 180. Twice in my life I was a mess like you. The last time was last year at the beginning of June 2010. After the discovery of an EA I was devastated and did all the common things a guy does, plead, beg, cry, etc. We got through it and it was hell. My wife showed remorse etc. Fast forward just under a year and now and all the signs are back. I will be posting my story when I am done replying to you in "Coping with infidelity" if you care to see my story. If I had to do it all over again I would have kept my emotions in check and just did the 180. It took alot of research, individual counseling, etc, to figure things out for me. I acted like a wussy and often times that is how we men respond (and it is normal). You need to get strong and take care of yourself and let her fall where she may. You are devastated and I am sorry to see you go through this. It is hard to get a proper grip on this, but my friend, for your well being, back up, do the 180 and try to get a grip on your emotions (as impossible as that may seem right now).