11-30-2011, 09:29 AM
Join Date: Nov 2011
| | Re: Please help - husband possibly cheating with escorts, denies it
Originally Posted by aug
$100-200 is sufficient. There are exceptional values to be found at some bargain places (as you may have noticed when you go shopping in general.)
Some can even charge to his or his company's credit card under some innocent looking entry.
disclaimer: so I heard...
My very best friend who I just recently had a falling out with is a phone girl for an escort service at a NYC location, and agencies charge the man's/clients credit card under an innocent business name. It's an old trick. I would check every single charge on the card, and call each and every company and make sure they are a LEGIT business. If you call a suspicious number and the person on the phone won't give you info, have a male friend of your call from a different number to ask questions. This happened to me with an ex-boyfriend who used to be an IT. I called this mysterious number, a girl picked up and very freshly refused to give me information. I had my friend allen call, and although they gave him a hard time because he couldn't reference where exactly he got their number from, it turned out to be an escort service indeed. I went through my exes house, found all his porn mags and cdroms and destroyed them all. Then I took a big chunk of raw red meat out of the freezer and put it in his oven (leaving the oven off, it was july) and left it there to rot. Since he never cooked, I doubt he would have found it right away. I also went into his closet and very carefully and stratigically cut the thread of his favorite work slacks from front to back. I later found out he actually wore those pants to work.
It may sound like a funny story, but I was livid. To make a long story short. We broke up. Months later gave him another chance. The first week we were together he lied to me and broke a promise. His friend was getting married and I told him i did not want him at a stip bar. he swore and promise he wouldn't go no matter what. He even asked me to wait for him at his house because he promised to be home by 9pm. but 9 came and went and nothing. called his cell phone repeatedly..forwarded to voice mail each time. He finally got home at 1 or 2 am. I waited for him to get there so I could give him a piece of my mind. Of course he admitted that with peer pressure he went to a strip joint. He tried to stop me and I bit him on the arm, a scar he still has till this day as far as i know. I left and never looked back. Till this day he seeks me through friends, but i'm married now, and he's a loser.
Sorry I went off on a rant. it's once of those stories that once you start telling it you have to keep going with it. Hope it helped in some weird way.