Re: No communication
Wow, so when your KIDS tell you to end it, you most definitely MUST end it! I have been that kid dying for my mom to leave my dad, so I get exactly how they are feeling, its MISERY. And you must understand this...HIS relationship with the kids is HIS responsibility...NOT YOURS. HE is the one acting like an ass and pushing the kids away. I am sorry to say it but that is not your problem. He is the adult, the parent, and its up to him to foster those relationships.
Start making your exit plan. Get everything in line first, then let him know its over. Not only will that make it faster to implement, but will help keep you from backpedaling. You must do this for your children...you are mom, suck up the fear and do it for them. I wish my mother had done so many years before she finally did. (I have ended two marriages myself, so I do understand and know what I'm talking about, I'm not just randomly throwing this out there)
Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.
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