Re: Civil, Respectful Divorce?
I had an amicable divorce, and could have easily chosen to sue my H for the parts I had no control over but decided against it. I did the majority of the D work, he and his lawyer just agreed to it all. And I was more fair to him than to myself, but that's because I wanted away from him fast and permanently.
We didn't have children, although we tried. I wanted them but it's a blessing that we didn't... Id be paying thousands for their therapy...
We haven't communicated in years.
Not sure how helpful this is, but just wanted to share my opinion that yes it can be amicable.
"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."
~ Abraham Maslow