Re: wife moving out and I'm so hurt and confused
You are incorrect most likely that neither of you are cheating.
Anytime a woman starts a new job and is away a lot, then suddenly with no warning wants to separate........
You need to dig for information.
Regardless, the sad truth is that for whatever reason, once they make up their minds they're done, they're done.
And if you still love her and proceed to chase her---- you are doomed. No chance.
Your best chance is to do the 180 and move on with your life. If you are strong enough to do that, she will notice. If you chase, she will run. Don't try to get her back. It will have the opposite effect.
And finding out which guy she's with--- that won't help except to strengthen your resolve to move on.
You are thinking I'm way off base with the other man suggestion.
I'm sorry but I'm far more likely to be right than you can imagine.
What you describe is an almost classic Infidelity scenario.
She wants time and space. No.
She wants privacy from you to be with someone else.
Be prepared, sir. This will be all your fault. She will make you believe--- heck, you already believe it---that it's all your fault and you're a bad husband. You are going to believe her when she says there's nobody else and that she is not going to try to screw you financially.
I promise you this. If you don't see an attorney on Monday, you're screwing up. That's advice I know is 100% correct. All this is going to tear you apart. But you will get through it, if you get help.
Don't be embarrassed to come here when you find out the truth. Nobody expects their wife to cheat.
Last edited by Evinrude58; 12-10-2016 at 01:15 PM.