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post #61 of 82 (permalink) Old 12-29-2016, 10:51 PM
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Can I ask a different question: has your husband ever asked to either have or take nude photos of you or film during sex? Or have you noticed any other potentially strange behaviour?


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Yup. They only found bunch of different charges probably for the cameras
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No he never asked me.
Few months after we were married I found bunch of porn tapes of sleeping women being touched and photographed.
I told him that he should have been honest with me about his fantasies because I couldn't never do that. But he instead that were just fantasies and not a problem.
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Never do what? You mean if he did anything like this to you? Or live with him when he's enjoying that type of porn?


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Here we go again...
This site is supposed to help people overcome marital issues. Baseless extrapolation is not helping.
If he was into necrophilia, she would know it by now.


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If he was into necrophilia, she would know it by now.
Because obviously this guy is super honest and forthcoming, right?
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I'm not going to let moronic comments stand. It is my right to respond to comments. And I have never made any ad hominem attacks. I expect others to behave in the same way.

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Bottom line OP......if what your husband is doing is not to your liking, and you've asked him to stop, and he's basically wiped his a $$ with your requests for respect, then you have two choices 1) leave him or 2) put up with his complete disregard for your personal boundaries. That's it.

It's not your responsibility to accept his kinks if they don't fall in line with your boundaries.

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Because obviously this guy is super honest and forthcoming, right?


No he has not been forthcoming. It doesn't automatically mean that he films his underage daughter in the shower, or his MIL going to the toilet, has sex with corpses or trades illegal material online.
Someone from TAM ought to remove this rubbish because it is essentially slander.


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No he has not been forthcoming. It doesn't automatically mean that he films his underage daughter in the shower, or his MIL going to the toilet, has sex with corpses or trades illegal material online.
No it doesn't automatically mean anything, but it could. Same as always having reasons to "work late" and being paranoid about watching your phone doesn't automatically make you a cheater, but it does raise some serious questions.

His behavior raises some serious questions - the kinds of questions or conclusions we are pondering. There's no guarantees to anything anyone says on here. That's the nature of an anonymous forum board. So if your idea is to fight every conclusion or thought or concern with no guarantee all across TAM, you better set some serious time aside for the task. However, as someone did note, I think eventually the mods might or might not get agitated with you diving in just to pick fights with other posters and not actually addressing the OP.

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Someone from TAM ought to remove this rubbish because it is essentially slander.
Or maybe you should counter with an actual thought on what the OP should do with a spouse where she's told him this bothers her and she doesn't like and he doesn't care. All the deep navel-gazing about what is or what isn't his motivation doesn't change the fact it bothers her and he doesn't seem to care. So whether it's a fetish or something weirder in the end - it's still a problem.
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No it doesn't automatically mean anything, but it could. Same as always having reasons to "work late" and being paranoid about watching your phone doesn't automatically make you a cheater, but it does raise some serious questions.



His behavior raises some serious questions - the kinds of questions or conclusions we are pondering. There's no guarantees to anything anyone says on here. That's the nature of an anonymous forum board. So if your idea is to fight every conclusion or thought or concern with no guarantee all across TAM, you better set some serious time aside for the task. However, as someone did note, I think eventually the mods might or might not get agitated with you diving in just to pick fights with other posters and not actually addressing the OP.







Or maybe you should counter with an actual thought on what the OP should do with a spouse where she's told him this bothers her and she doesn't like and he doesn't care. All the deep navel-gazing about what is or what isn't his motivation doesn't change the fact it bothers her and he doesn't seem to care. So whether it's a fetish or something weirder in the end - it's still a problem.


The first thing I did was offer solutions, based on MY interpretation of events. I was immediately accused of the same crimes as OP's husband was getting accused of.

It was I who suggested to call the police in the event that there is a possibility that the daughter might be involved. It was I who suggested that if it is a harmless fetish (like wanting to have a nude pic of your wife or caressing her while she is asleep) that they could either try and incorporate it into their love life or discuss it.

His wife already stated that she is sure that his obsessions end with her. The police haven't found anything (though if there is still doubt, they should take the computers/hard drives for tech forensics as well as monitor his net activity).

Yes you are right. I don't have time to respond to every crap people post here.

So feel free to take over this mental asylum.


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Maybe it's only the "unaware" part of it all that your husband enjoys?
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The first thing I did was offer solutions, based on MY interpretation of events. I was immediately accused of the same crimes as OP's husband was getting accused of.

It was I who suggested to call the police in the event that there is a possibility that the daughter might be involved. It was I who suggested that if it is a harmless fetish (like wanting to have a nude pic of your wife or caressing her while she is asleep) that they could either try and incorporate it into their love life or discuss it.

His wife already stated that she is sure that his obsessions end with her. The police haven't found anything (though if there is still doubt, they should take the computers/hard drives for tech forensics as well as monitor his net activity).

es you are right. I don't have time to respond to every crap people post here.

So feel free to take over this mental asylum.


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