01-10-2009, 11:53 PM
Join Date: Jan 2009
| | Feels like I'm married to a little kid and Im probably pregnant...
Married 2 years and we live in a 3 bedroom house. I work 40 hours a week, he's been layed off (construction) since August. So, the house is disgustingly kept, no dishes ever washed except by me. He just gets angry when i say I AM NOT A HOUSEWIFE - I am working full time, paying all the bills and i'm too tired to do housework. He's at home all day long and never never cleans. 8 wednesdays of the garbage man coming by and he's NEVER took out the trash. I do. He said it's because his mom always did everything so he thinks thats the way it should be...?
His little dog craps on the floor in every room and he just leaves it until i say "can you pick up the poop?" He always gets mad and then usually forgets to even do it. I am so grossed out at my own house that i have fantasized about just moving out and having a clean tidy lovely home. I can afford it. He can't get by without me. Don't get me wrong though, he's not a bum and works hard at his job when he isn't layed off. It's the dirty stinking house that is becoming too much for me!
Lastly, i think I'm pregnant. I am HAPPY. I just don't know if i can do this, have a baby and the stress off arguing with a grown man about housework, and generally feeling like i'd rather be alone. Can i do that or am i stuck with this man-child???