My wife and I separated after being under CPS investigation - Page 2 - Talk About Marriage
Considering Divorce or Separation If you're considering divorce or separation, this is the place to talk.

User Tag List

 35Likes
Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 02-10-2017, 04:03 PM
Moderator
 
EleGirl's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: New Mexico
Posts: 32,319
Re: My wife and I separated after being under CPS investigation

Quote:
Originally Posted by SunCMars View Post
I missed the ages.

Yes, from the mouths of babes...naught. Babies cannot logically point their little fingers, either, and they cannot speak.

They can roar!

Yes, CPS did not know who was telling the truth, so they erred on the side of protecting the children.

Broken ribs could have happened as a result of a fall. From a rather high perch. The four month old? She could have rolled and fell. But, unnoticed?

The one year old? They can barely climb. They could stand and fall from a couch, a parents bed, onto a hard table. But, unnoticed?

The bang and the child's screams would not go unnoticed, had the mother been in the house. Or she did not want to admit it.

More ipso facto, Pour favor.
The OP says that the children are 4 months old and 1 year old. 12-4=8. I doubt that the two children are 8 months apart. This 1 year old child could be 23 months old and still be called a year old.


When my son was 12 months old he could climb on just about anything. By the time he was 24 months old one of his favorite activities was to climb on the tallest thing around him and jump.

There were times when I was in the kitchen checking the cooking food (2-3 minutes & about 10 ft way from him) and he was in the next room... where, as soon as I did not have my eyes on him, he would do things like climb up on a book shelf and jump. There were times when he suffered a bruise for two doing this.

What I learned is that kids can move fast. And some kids like to do things that they are forbidden to do the moment their parent is not right there looking at them, even for 2-3 minutes.

As I explain earlier, his broken bones from this happened when he was a bit older.

I'm not making the judgement that the OP's kid was not abused. I'm not making the point that abuse is not the only scenario under which a child that young can get hurt.

I don't think that the OP is coming back. His post was days ago and he's long gone. So now we are all just making stuff up to talk about with no idea of what really happened.

EleGirl is online now  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
post #17 of 17 (permalink) Old 02-11-2017, 06:01 AM
Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Ohio
Posts: 1,464
Re: My wife and I separated after being under CPS investigation

Quote:
Originally Posted by EleGirl View Post
The OP says that the children are 4 months old and 1 year old. 12-4=8. I doubt that the two children are 8 months apart. This 1 year old child could be 23 months old and still be called a year old.


When my son was 12 months old he could climb on just about anything. By the time he was 24 months old one of his favorite activities was to climb on the tallest thing around him and jump.

There were times when I was in the kitchen checking the cooking food (2-3 minutes & about 10 ft way from him) and he was in the next room... where, as soon as I did not have my eyes on him, he would do things like climb up on a book shelf and jump. There were times when he suffered a bruise for two doing this.

What I learned is that kids can move fast. And some kids like to do things that they are forbidden to do the moment their parent is not right there looking at them, even for 2-3 minutes.

As I explain earlier, his broken bones from this happened when he was a bit older.

I'm not making the judgement that the OP's kid was not abused. I'm not making the point that abuse is not the only scenario under which a child that young can get hurt.

I don't think that the OP is coming back. His post was days ago and he's long gone. So now we are all just making stuff up to talk about with no idea of what really happened.


I always wish we could get some closure on some of these one and out post. In this case the OP could very easily be sitting in jail, maybe for violating the restraining order or possibly for child abuse. Or it could turn out the wife was abusive and she is in jail so CPS gave him back the kids, now he is to busy to repost. Or the couple got back to together and decided to take a vacation since CPS had arranged to watch their kids for awhile.

If we only knew.
Cooper is online now  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Reply

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now



In order to be able to post messages on Talk About Marriage, you must first register. Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.

Important! Your username will be visible to the public next to anything you post and could show up in search engines like Google. If you are concerned about anonymity, PLEASE choose a username that will not be recognizable to anyone you know.

User Name:
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.

Password:


Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.

Email Address:
OR

Log-in









Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



Thread Tools Search this Thread
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search



Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

 
For the best viewing experience please update your browser to Google Chrome