Re: Time to move on?
Well, I had an interesting day today. Over the weekend, I finished moving most of my important things out of the house into a storage unit while my wife was gone. This morning before she left for work, she went into my office to put something in our files and noticed it looked quite empty. I got a text at work this morning from her, "where is all your stuff in your office?" "Where did you put everything from the closet?"
I tried to avoid answering directly, but she kept pressing and I decided it was time to spill the beans. We texted back and forth all morning and when we left off, I told her I haven't been happy in a long time because of the way she's treated me. We agreed to talk after we got home from work, but I knew it was time for me to tell her the news.
On my lunch break, I went to our bank and opened up a separate checking account in my name only and deposited exactly 50% of our balance into it.
When I got home from work, we got into it again and, long story short, I told her I wanted a divorce because when she punched me in the face, I decided it was over and I waited until she found a job to tell her. She didn't get violent, but was very distraught. I'm spending the night in a hotel nearby and told her everything will work out and she can have the dogs but we need to focus on them and put our differences aside.
Wish me luck, it's about to get very interesting. Tough day for me.