Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: Wife Does Not Find me Attractive
,You are her sounding board. She is bouncing her inner desires against your outer shell. And that shell [to her] is bland.
She has exceptional vision. Yes, she does.
She can look right through you, not see you. Not see any value in you.
She only sees herself as being.....unhappy.
You see, she is a believer in the "Value Added" theorem. She has no intrinsic value unless she can stand in the shadow of an attractive man.
She only sees herself as being....unhappy. I see her as being incomplete. She has low esteem. She has low esteem and it is your fault.
Her outlook is flat as a smooth board. And you have caused her to be.......bored....with you
She is a Flat Earther. She sees everything in 'two' dimensions, viz., 1) A man's looks -and- 2) Her standing next to that man . She inflates her deflated ego by idolizing the plastic entities that fill the streets of Hollywood, of Bollywood. She and her ilk stand in the shadows of two legged Shadows.
Have you noticed that the plainest people, those that are "judged" to be five or sixes on a scale of ten, wear the most outlandish clothes, wear their hair in a style that makes others look. They get the most tattoos...most outlandish tattoos. Add the ear lobe inner rings, the nose and lip rings. You get the picture.
These same sad folks worship the "perceived" Nines and Tens. You know, those good lookers that exist on the surface of life's ocean.
Why? Because these dependent souls are not comfortable in their own skin....and it is "your" fault.
She is "Shallow Sal" and you are not shallow Hal, hence your pain.
Trade her in for a women with good eyesight.... with good sensate. Trade her in for a women who will stroke your Ego. Both of them.
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
Last edited by SunCMars; 02-22-2017 at 02:20 PM.