Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: North Coast Nationalist-burg, U.S.A.
Re: Wife Does Not Find me Attractive
Ever hear the statement, "Familiarity breeds contempt?"
A little of that going on here. I believe it has less to do with your looks and more to do with her looks. Her feeling of contempt for all the little idiosyncrasies you have. We all do.
Another isssue. She has lost respect and love for you.
How can a women attack a man and do so effectively? How can she really hurt her man? Especially, if she wants to break him. Break down his resolve.
A few things come to mind.
She can tell him he is ugly.
She can tell him he smells.
She can tell him he is a failure, by pointing out all his shortcomings.
She can tell him he is a lousy lover.
She can tell him he is stupid.
She can tell him he is lousy in bed.
She can tell him that he is an embarrassment to her and her family, to his family.
She can tell him that she settled for him. Her other boyfriends were better looking. She could have done better. She screwed up when she picked him.
She can tell him that she has stupidly put up with his bad personality, his bad mistakes, his lousy career. His lack of ambition. His low ranking in society.
She can tell him his **** is too small and she should have married her last boyfriend. The one with the big one.
There is discontent and malice in this women's heart. It may be sub-conscious, it may be her way of pushing him away, with the hope that he will leave her. She is too weak to leave on her own.
This has Mid-Life-Crisis written all over it. She is self destructive, no self destroying. The "self" she is destroying is him, OP, the husband. She wants to break him. Destroy his love for her.
This is classic lack of impulse control. The sharp tongue cannot be dulled lest it meet the steel resolve of a hardened man. Op is not hardened.
I see a cutter in her. Only she cuts others. She cuts others with her words. Nay, not a drop of blood flows out, but emotional scars become the resultant. Those scars are on her husbands pride. Soon the scars will limit his Ego's mobility. OP's ego will become paralyzed and will just whimper away.
Her "self" is in flux, has no handle to grip. No bodily handle to grasp, stare at, and understand. I see an un-winding Slinky. A Lady that is unwinding, wobbly heading down the stairs. Down the stairs, assisted by a lack of self directed purpose and a lack of the gravity of her situation, and her true feelings. She is suppressing that which cannot be forever silenced, She wants out, she wants the freedom to lust after the pretty faces.
She is a cutter, a Scorpio in flesh, in deed, and in action.
This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.
The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.