I have been thinking about divorce for a while. Little background: I have repeatedly tried to get my husband to understand my needs for years. We have been married for 24 years together for 27, me 44 him 47. He stopped showing any kind of affection about 10 years ago, including sex. He will not go to Dr. To see if anything is wrong and will not go to counseling. We get along well no fighting for the most part. He is just not interested in me. Basically living as roommates. He is a good father.
I made myself stay till my child graduated school, I wanted him to have both parents around. So I am finally ready and literally the same week I am going to tell my husband my son announced he has asked his girlfriend to get married. So how can I say anything now? He would be devastated (my son).
Can I be that selfish now after waiting so long or is it OK to leave?