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post #16 of 19 (permalink) Old 03-08-2017, 11:02 AM
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Is he mentally ill? Is he contemptuous of you for some reason (did you have an affair at some point)?

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Is he mentally ill? Is he contemptuous of you for some reason (did you have an affair at some point)?
I know, right? There's gotta be more to this story.
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the first time was 2 1/2 years ago with a much younger girl he met on the internet who lives in colorado. He was very open about it and very smug. He told me to my face what he was doing and he laughed about it every day. He gave up on our family and grandchildren. Stayed in the bedroom all day and night. He was recently retired. He came out for a few minutes to eat dinner with me. He even bought tickets to go with her, and was mad when all the kids turned him down for a ride to the airport. He would even go to the point of telling me all about her and things they would talk about. He never ended up going and he said that was a good thing for me. That meant he still had feelings for me. I'm not sure exactly what happened but it ended. For a few months all was good. I had lost all feeling I had for him by then. I tried very hard to get back those feelings but it never happened. Then came the part when he wanted me to go with other guys. That was a NO!!! He supposedly got off that subject and we were getting by but recently computer activity has been back to the same and lying to me about what he does all day. He didnt do anything to help us. He thinks all is good as long as he gets what he wants.
Your WH sounds sick in the head. Get rid of him fast as you can, there is no future with this loser. What he is doing is emotional abuse as well as cheating. His rubbing your face in it is abhorrent, do not tolerate this. Tell your family and kids what he is doing and then you all kick him to the curb.
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Immediately "180 Him!"

Then you need to be in a good family attorney's office being advised of your property rights and planning an exit strategy!

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