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post #1 of 7 (permalink) Old 03-07-2017, 09:28 PM Thread Starter
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Thouse who move through it with action.

So one of my last post got me thinking about the post where people successfully moved on from the people who cheated on them and seem to be better off. My contention is that swift action even if it is years later helps with healing. I thought I would like a few. If you know other please post.

The top spaceghost

river rat, better late then never

The female version of spaceghost

above 3 months out

The husband in this thread, who is not the poster is a boss. Handled it perfectly

Continued..

This guy did good.

There is hope with action. Any others feel free to add to the list.


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Re: Thouse who move through it with action.

One of my all time favs here was @flyfishdoc

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Re: Thouse who move through it with action.

This thread is about the best "take action and move on" porn you can find:

wife and best friend having (at least) an EA

Unlike the SpaceGhost thread, which I truly believe is a troll, this story rings true in every sense.

Here is another one that was particularly impactful for me:

Separation on the horizon.

He was not so decisive at first, but once he made up his mind, he was gone.

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Re: Thouse who move through it with action.

And just because this thread should be required reading for ANYONE going through infidelity...filled with posts from two posters that made TAM a better place.

Time To ReGroup and Move On

ETA: Those two posters are no longer around... Conrad was banned and Mavash. faded away.

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Re: Thouse who move through it with action.

More porn. Both threads are the same guy as he started in SIM due to his wife withholding sex for her AP:

Wife travels a lot, sex life has stalled, worried - help!

Go time...and time to go. Sucks...

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Re: Thouse who move through it with action.

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This thread is about the best "take action and move on" porn you can find:

wife and best friend having (at least) an EA
Oh wow, talk about a trip down memory lane. SO many people not here any more!

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.


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