12-27-2011, 12:22 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Husband wants to leave but I had to ask him to go...there's this guy on facebook
Well we talked last week and I told him that he needed to move out, he asked for three months and I told him that was not a reasonable time frame unless he wanted to work things out. There is a family event mid Jan, so i asked him to leave after that point, he said he thinks he can work things out to leave in Feb. So at that time my plan was to give him the separation papers. I will still stay at the house and he will still be just down the road to see kids and drive to activities and what not. Since he will have to have a lease for a year he wants to give the separation a year, which is fine with me. But if things go awol then I will file for divorce sooner, I gave him a list of things he would have to do in order to re-establish a relationship with me, so far he has told me he's not interested in doing any of that. So I think by summertime, I will have a more definite picture as to where things will end up, but I do think if I at least see how things go until the summer, I will have a better idea of how it will end up and I will feel that I have done everything I could.