Re: 28 years of beautiful lies
I think it depends on a lot of context that we simply don't get here.
I've known people who have been cheated on and have done absolutely nothing to warrant such behavior from their spouse.
I've known people who have been cheated on and have been less than exemplary spouses and refuse to see their own part in how things fell apart.
There are REAL victims and there are self-proclaimed victims.
We really don't have the ability to clearly see the full circumstances of a situation. We usually only get one side... if lucky, we get two. So really, everything needs to be taken with a grain of salt... but this is an internet forum. Sides will be taken and stories will only be partially complete. I think we just do the best we can with what we have... and moderators hopefully keep the board open to all opinions.
"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."
~ Abraham Maslow