Re: Husband cheating with strippers
I did brielfy think R was possible. I do not think so now though. His refusal to be honest is not acceptable, I can't live the rest of my life waiting for him to do this again & his words and actions show me this will absolutely happen again. He doesn't want everyone finding out what he has done, he is furious that my mom & sister know (they were the only ones I talked to & that was because I needed a support system). He really just wants to be done with discussions and carry on with life like everything is fine. He is also afraid of our marriage failing being his fault, so I feel he is putting up the front of "working on it" now so that when I say it's over he can say I was the one who walked away when he wanted to try to fix it. It's all a mind game and he is really good at it. I had a meeting with the PI this morning, he has dealt with these situations a lot & is completely baffled at my hubs behavior and lack of remorse & denial of anything sexual happening with these women. The fact that I called them dirty strippers and hubs got offended that I insulted them & said I don't know them or their lives tells me everything - more worried about insulting them than how his actions hurt me.
It does sound like it's time for you to move on.
Are you having the PI do anymore work?
Do you have a lawyer lined up? You might want to talk to one and get your plan of action in place before you tell him you are divorcing him. (I think the above means that you are leaving him, right?)